When you are not sure about something you will require an
Advice. If good advice is like a boon then bad advice is
nothing less than a curse. This way it becomes very crucial in life to give and
take right kind of advises.
In my nation the inflation
is on rise, but this one thing is still offered for free. Every mouth has an
opinion irrespective of the know-how required. It’s really funny to observe
people taking it so lightly.
Simply, the advice that
fetches you profit in reality (real profit not imaginary) is good, otherwise
it’s useless or might be disastrous.
In this post I have tried to
explore the basic difference between a good advice and a bad one. Have a look …
Taking
Advises:
These points might help:
·
The
suggestion coming from a person belonging to a different field
must be given a second thought, third thought, 4th … You must not
expect a physician to explain rocket science in its correct form. The person
might be knowledgeable but only in his area of expertise.
·
The
person providing you with suggestions is himself a big clues.
Your task must be to look for any hidden agenda. There is nothing bad to profit
others, but not at the cost of your loss.
·
Men make mistake and they make
more mistakes when too happy, too sad, or angry.
The advises provide at these times are to be taken very seriously. In
the hype you might do something for which you will have to regret
later.
·
Alcoholism and drug abuse is on
rise. The suggestions to and from people suffering from such condition
must be provided with greatest care. Hopefully, this might not be the case
with you, but it happens and I have seen it multiple times.
·
Sometimes the suggestion might
not be a complete match with your requirements. In such cases you can perform
the desired modification in plan to make it compatible.
The
one thing that you must never forget is that at the end, responsibility will be
yours. The incurred profit or loss will affect you, only you, or your loved
ones.
If you fail the whole
responsibility will be yours. None will come and say “It was my mistake as I
gave you a wrong advice”. Even if they confess the situation is unlikely to change.
Giving
Advises:
The simple rule of thumb is
to never provide an advice outside your area of expertise. In case, you find it
difficult to suppress your urge to speak then mention it clearly that the idea
stated is simply your point of view.
When you really desire to
help someone better do it the right way. If you cannot make it it right don’t
turn it to bad.
The conclusion is that you
will come across numerous suggestions and a lot of mouths. Every time you will
have to determine the legitimacy of every individual idea being presented to
you. There is no single line definition or some devise to differentiate between
a good advice and a bad advice. All you need is to take care and act right.
A Few Chanakya Neeti Quotes about speaking :
·
It is a waste to advice
some foolish person. Your words won’t change the person’s nature. Like the
fragrant wind passing through forest of sandal wood does not make any
impact on odor of a bamboo tree.
·
Don’t give
any advice to a foolish person; try taking care of a woman with loose
character; keep company of a sad fellow.
·
A really wise man is
well aware about the art of speaking, he talks as per situation, speak the
words that add to his fame, and shows anger in accordance with the power he
possesses.
An
advice is just an idea. It is you who will have to think about the outcome and
act accordingly.
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